affairs

Will she forgive you?
- I always try and help you guys, as you know. My friend, you can try and make this thing work, but you're facing real nasty odds. You've got to stay away from Jill. She has to call you up and you have to ask her out. And then she'll say, "No. I just called you to tell you again what a jerk you are!" And you'll have to say OK, honey, let me have it with both barrels. And she's going to browbeat you for 20 minutes and then hang up. And you'll just have to keep putting up with that until she gets some of the pain out of her system. But she won't ever get it all out.
- Remember, guys: if you're Catholic, save it for the confessional.
- All girls saying they will not forgive
- Wow first of all Voiceofgod has no clue what he is talking about. I probably have the worst case scenario.My husband that i have been with for 8 years just told me that he cheated on me with my sister and i only asked the question because his step sister told me that he was hitting on her. He had sex with my sister about 6 times over the course of 2 years and it ended 2 years ago. We are reading "After the Affair" and going to counciling and i believe that in the end we will have to work really hard especially with communication but i think we will be happier than ever. Dont give up! If he will counciling, youll be alright. I know this is more of a dating web site but dating leads to marriage so my advice should help. BE HONEST 100%
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How an affair saved my marriage
- All the same, there may be no lonelier social landscape than the one inhabited by two people having an affair. While the illicitness might initially be exciting, it doesn't take long to crash into the inevitable recognition that what you're doing is bad.
- Recently, Alex and I were back in each other's arms—but this time, we stood in broad daylight, and our embrace was one of gratitude. In the eight years since our affair ended, we've become what ex-lovers dream of but seldom achieve: extremely close, unconditionally devoted companions.
- We share all of our news, and we call each other on our bad behavior. We are friends with every benefit that matters, no condoms required. And though I keep my relationship with Alex a secret from my husband, it is not out of guilt or shame. It is because I do not wish to remind James of a time when I chose another.

{tough love - once a cheater, always a cheater|http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-tough-love-he-cheated-on-you-because-hes-a-cheater/?obref=obinsite]

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- women are very selfish, and not empathetic
- This type of woman is usually sneaky, and manipulative. Not only does she have to sneak around trying to not get caught by the wife, she also usually has something up her sleeve when it comes to the man she is involved with. Remember, she has to continuously keep manipulating this man to keep him hanging on. Believe it or not a lot of husband's may have pangs of doubt, shame, and guilt when having an affair. It takes a really manipulative woman to keep him believing that what their doing is acceptable and that he shouldn't feel bad about it.
- Well, sometimes it's because their just as commitment phobic as the men we here so much about. A married man is the perfect answer for this type of woman. She gets all the goodies without any commitment. She knows the chances of him leaving his wife is slim, and that's how she likes it.
Stay together or break up - link
- 100-50 test: If I'm not 100% content in a relationship 50% of the time, it's probably time to get out. Every relationship takes work, but that work shouldn't be unrelenting. It's as simple as that.

Should I confess my affair?

- Should confess an affair - http://christianblogs.christianet.com/1129947405.htm
- Mary, I don't know how you should handle this with your husband. But you need to tell someone trustworthy (maybe a counselor) beside us. I've been in a situation similar to yours. Psalm 32 Vs. 3,4 says "when I kept silent, my bones grew old...for day and night Your hand was heavy upon me. My vitality was turned into the drought of summer".Vs 5...I said I will confess my transgressions to the Lord. And you forgave my iniquity". Repent. The rest of the psalm is for guidance annd healing.
- Do i tell spouse of my affair - http://christianblogs.christianet.com/1114701453.htm