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Could her phone be dead this many times

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Situation: So, my Boy is so in love with his girl that he can't see straight. He says that he talks to her all day every day. Yesterdaay he last talked to her at 5:30. He called and texted her til 10pm, no response. At 10;20, he gets a text saying 'my phone died'. This is the 3rd or 4th time this has happened. Is my boy being played? - From facebook

I found the 80+ responses to this to be a very interesting cross section of thought from a wide range of people in the community. I wondered how the answers of the women stacked up compared to the answers of the men. You can see my collation of the answers below.

What do you think? Respond with a comment below....

Men who say 'Yes being played'

  1. Lymar L'Dogg Pratt - That's the oldest trick n the book! My battery died or I had no service!! yea right thats BS... You betta school him on the games women play D..
    • D' Tell yur son to keep her on the team' jus move her out the starting rotation! if she wants to be the star of his team she's has to earn her startin position back! All men know we don't jus dismiss women like that' we jus treat them accordingly!! Tell'em to call me! Lmao' BREED UP OR SPEED UP!!!
  2. Quinto Lewis He knows & we all know Hes gett'n PlAYed
  3. Darryl Moore - like a too short cd..
  4. Victor Ward - PLAYED like a Saxaphone.....
  5. Cee Rider - lol....lmao...he betta not have no bike....cuz he aint no rida!!!! real ridas stay out they feeeeeelingz.....
  6. Jeremiah Jackson - seem like
  7. Roy Anthony - Time to get some therapy.
  8. Keith J. Leigh - Played like a motha....If a woman is into you she will be calling you just as much as you call her...To be real a few of my boys is going through that too...Women are the NEW PLAYAS SINCE 9/11 LOL......They cold these days......
  9. Corey Kenist - yeah...games homie
  10. Ezell Jackson - She'll do it again and again if that's the case,time will tell hommy.Jus kick back and observe,he'll finally see what the real iz.Everything comes to light sooner than later,we all no that!

Men who say no

None responded

Men who say maybe

  1. Eric Nimpho Elzy Maybe her ph would've died earlier if she would've been hitting him back all that time, especially if she got a g1! He still could be getting played....

Women who say 'Yes being played'

  1. Torrie McGee - Lol he's probably gettin played!!
  2. LaShawn Lincoln - Like a piano! How many times have you told someone the phone died!
  3. Deidra Love ?- 4 hrs and 50 min um...... Who don't carry their charger wit them..... You have a charger of some sort....
  4. Lakeitha Stewart - Yes..straight up..How can u get a texted if yo. Phn died an on top of that u couldn't call frm another phn while her phn was chargeing..lol yea tell him he gotta open his eyes good girls do bad too...
  5. Tomeka Harvey - Yes! Like a game of hop scotch! :O
  6. Leyenda Taylor - Nobodies phone dies tht much...tell him on 2 the next...lol
  7. Theresa Enoex - If i'm realy into someone i will make sure that phone stay on the charger lmbo
  8. Lisa Rabb Pretty much!!!!!!!
  9. Toni Bailey Raines Most likely!
  10. Nikobianne Terryzwife Walker ?3RD OR 4TH TIME....IN THIS DAY & AGE HE HAS ALREADY BEEN PLAYED & LETTN HER GET AWAY WITH IT....NOBODY LETS THEIR PHONE GO THAT LONG WITHOUT CHARGING IT NOWADAYS...itz possible she getz tired of all the talkn & txtn...lol
  11. Shari Dee Dee Lynise Yep!
  12. MeeMee Cain-Ervin LMAO DO YOU REALLY HAVE 2 ASK THAT? LOL HELL YEAH THIS IS CALI
  13. Caroline Creer I hear muisc in the air...LMAO..... Get someone who really loves you back like 5o,5o love you can feel when its there.....call cheaters...HaHaHa.....
  14. Tinisha Clay-Pye LIKE A MUTHAFUCKA!!!! U NEED TO SLAP HIM TO WAKE HIM UP FROM HIS DREAM LOL....
  15. Katryna Hooker ?4 sure... Tell him to wake up and smell the coffee
  16. Angie Williams - Sorry 2 say it ya boy getn playd she talkd 2 em @ 5:30 prolly afta she got off work she den went 2 da mall by 10 she wuz n line @ da club getn ready 2 go thru da door wen she txt em sayn her battery wuz dead
  17. Laurie Bradley It could be true.. Everyone doesn't think the same... If not, it wont be long before he catch it...
  18. Michele Jenkins Aint no fun when the rabbit got the gun. I hate games and thats all this is tell him to give her 50 feet and just be busy when she calls for about a week and if shes feeling him then she'll get some act right in her.
  19. Tamara Johnson Tell him move on cause she did
  20. Tameca Williams She is playing him and if her phone was dead she should of took another route and call him from another phone. Communication is the key!!
  21. Christiane Johnson Yes he is BIG TIME!!!!
  22. MeeMee Cain-Ervin ?"NIGGA DONT ACT LIKE A BITCH" TELL EM E40 "DONT DO IT"
  23. Nakisha Washington YES!!! Very much so. Ive said this line before a few times myself. Tell your boy to move the hell on!
  24. Jenita Evans Yep hes being played. But he is gonna have 2 see it on his on
  25. Myeisha Millsaps Hell yes
  26. Jacqueline Tuggle hell ya
  27. Naena Morrison-White U KNOW SHE GOT SUMBODY ELSE NIGGA ITS 2010 WHATS NIGGAS USED 2 DO BITCHES (NOT REAL WOMEN) ARE PLAYIN THE SAME GAME IT AINT THE SAME NO MO
  28. Lisa Clay hell yeah it took damn near 5hrs for her to get back to him he better open his eyes
  29. Choc Henderson Most defini being played so he need 2 keep it push like Too short and E40 NIGGA DON'T ACT LIKE BITCCCCHHH SO NIGGA PLEASE DON'T MARRY THAT BITCCCHHHHH
  30. Dorina Dee Dee Brown The "games" we've learned from MEN. LOL
  31. Bandy Mcbride YES, VERY MUCH SO........... AND HIS HEAD IS STUCK IN DA WAMMY..
  32. DeAngela Parks It's not looking Good for your boy....unfortunatly it seems as if someone else has her attention...if he's a good one,he'll bounce back quick....

Women who say 'No, not being played'

  1. Theresa Thompson ?...with that much talking and texting her phone died...
  2. Chiffon McCoy - if their talkin & textin all day...its possible that her phn really died. Or she couldve easily been busy OR didnt feel like talkin anymore. But no....that dnt mean he's being played
  3. Shawn Williams Maybe she just need some space!
  4. Aretha Harris where's the trust
    • Aretha Harris where is the love
    • What about prayer
    • Lean on the lord it's free
    • Hang out wit yo homies let her wonder y u aint callin let her wonder
    • time will tell
  5. Lisa Martinez He Betta Get It 2getha & Knock It Off
  6. Charlette Collier no
  7. Vanessa Kirkendall she sleep lmao

Women not sure - benefit of the doubt

  1. Stacia Lightskin'Diamond Micole - YEP HE GETTiN PLAYED! OR SHE TiRED oF TALKiN 2 HiM ALL DAM DAY HAViN 2 CHECKiN! WHERE U @ WHAT U DoiN?
    • THE PHoNE DIEiN MiGHT BE TRUE BUT MoST PHoNES GiVE SiGNAL FLASHiN oR BEEPiN LETTiN U KNoW BATTERY LoW & MoST PPL USUALLY " HEY MY PHoNES BoUT 2 DiE"
    • LASHAWN HE iN "LooVE" So HiS NEXT MoVE iS To Go oUT & GET HER 5 CAR CHARGERS & 5 HoUSE CHARGERS & SoME oUTLETs So SHE Won't HAVE THAT MY PHoNE DiED EXCUSE! LoL
  2. Tiffany Mchenry-Huff Ummmm a good questions check all avenues first before assuming.. Sound fishy but metros die fast lol
  3. Yoshii Noya - Well maybe her phone really did die since he is calling and texting her allllllll day. Trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.
  4. Eileen R Trujillo - Its a possibility, but assumptions are never a good idea. How old are they? Sounds a bit smothering to me.
  5. Eursula White-Williams - Shit happens where u can't charge a phone or call back I agree with Tiff check everything out first before assuming.
  6. Nekia Moreira ??????????....Maybe he should give her some space!!!!!!....lmao lol lol but seriously Y is he just talking to her instead of them being together face to face everyday....hhhmmmm he better be careful who he falls in love with.. I'm just sayin'.....to her credit phones do die but most everybody keep their chargers with them Sooooooo...idk lmao
    • Eileen R Trujillo - But dang, if he text msgd her at 10pm and she got right back in 20 mins, can he really be trippin?? He really does need to take a step back. I agree with Nekia.
      On the flip side, he could be gettin played. But this just isn't enough to jump ...
  7. Valarie Freeman wow...lol...smh..why worry if he didn't put a ring on it?
    • Lori Bush ?- @ VAlerie, that's right...say that girl
  8. Sherron Hayes - If he talks to her all day what can she be doing....sometimes a person need a break...maybe she was hanging out with her girls or just having some me time, and if your boy is in love like that he probably has a problem with her hanging out with friends, and she doesn't want to hear it! Tell your boy he needs to find something to do THAT'S NOT HEALTHY for any relationship. SPACE IS NEEDED!
    • Eileen R Trujillo ?agrees with Sherron in her defense, I had a phone that died allll the dang time. I'm so glad my boo didn't jump to that conclusion, cause I'm super good to him. also, he's busy humself...who has time to be on anyone like that. Let the girl breathe already. Sounds like control issues.
  9. Carmel Sundie - Her phone may have died since they talk so much...and I agree w/ y are they on the phone instead of in person.....that might cause problems in future if they havin a long distance relationship
  10. Veda Woodard - There are things called courteous and respect. It doesnt seem like that person was being courteous or respectful.
    • Veda Woodard - Wow...what did we do before cell phones and texting was available?
  11. Cathleen Wright - Give her some space Dog!! Covering her like a new comforter!! We need to miss him!!
  12. De'Anna Brown - She may be or reall could be tired of talking
  13. Kelly Alexander - Whatever done in dark will come to light. You only allow a peson to do to you what u LET them. She couldve used someone else phone, but who remembers numbers any more? Honestly we dont know.
  14. Terri Fiesty Pep Cummings - If her phone really died then its wrong 2 assume. Hey but u neva no sum1 else cld of bn entertaining her idk it cld go both ways tell him dnt fall n luv so fast 2 protect himself frm bn hurt!
  15. Teri Hardiek Dade - This depends on how long they've been dating. If it's new, she "may" still have some other spoons in the pot, BUT that's not to say she's not worth the fight. Maybe your homeboy needs to step up his game, but he's gonna have be a bit of a playa himself to catch her attention. Both guys and girls like a "bit" of a challenge. Hopefully he can KNOCK those other spoons out da pot and become her main dish.
    • Teri Hardiek Dade Tell baby boy he needs to step back a bit. Stop calling her. This will cause her to wonder and call him. If she doesn't. Move on.
  16. Shanita Bishop-kellogg Lets mix & scratch this up a lil do tha men trip or worry about tha females getting played? When they ignore they calls or text when they doing what they doing just a ramdom thought. I wouldn't worry about it cause that's there relationship u get involved he will only resist any advise if he is that much in luv. Ppl have 2 stay out of other ppls affairs the end result will not b what u like. He will have 2 go through tha motions.
  17. Rochelle Henderson-Latimore He might wanna just step back a bit, watch, listen and most important learn!! She may not be "the one" tell him Ms Pia says "SILLY RABBIT TRICKS ARE 4 KIDS" he need a real WOMAN in his CRAWL SPACE!
  18. Skii Starr THAT DOESNT ACTUALLY MEAN HES BEING PLAYED....AT SOME POINT COUPLES HAVE TO BREAK AWAY, GIVE YA GURL SUM SPACE.....ALLOW HER TO MISS YOU BESIDES HOW MUCH TALKING CAN HE DO...IS HE ALL TALK AND NO PLAY? STEP YO GAME UP!
  19. Terre Carter There r 3 sides to every story, there's her side, his side then the truth. What side r u on? Ppl should really stop gettin in other ppl's relationships n just listen instead of jumping to conclusions n assuming there doing something other t...han right. Everyone always thinks the next person is always tryin to get over on them. If ur friend thinks he is gettin played maybe he needs to rethink his love for her. N I agree with what all this talkin n textin y is he not seein her sounds like there's more to this story that's left out. But good luck to them.
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