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She doesn't come home link

• arguments. Most were about her freedom to go out all night with her friends and come home when she wanted or not at all. This had mostly to do with a circle of friends where she works as a bartender
  • She's still going to go out all night partying, with or without me. So, why are we still a couple? Why did she say she loved me and still wanted a future with me and doesn't want to be with another?
• Answers:
  • low interest = high arguments
  • cousin Sal "The Fish" Love says: "Hmm. You have to wonder what she's doing out there all night long."
  • heavy-duty bad trait – inability to spend time with you – before you trapped yourself with her. The point is simple: You don't find out that a babe wants to party all night long after you move in with her. You find that out before you move in together
  • you have to ask yourself this about Caelyn's all-night bashes: Are other men involved? Or did she hand you the following Womanese: "I was just out dancing with my girlfriends"? This is an important element of your dilemma.
  • Remember, guys: If she doesn't want to come home at night, you got a problem.

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• Woman grinding dancing with other guys http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_250/278c_relationship_expert.html
  • Remember guys; if they want to grind strangers, it's a deal breaker.
• Are beautiful women narcissists link
  • search for "self-centered, inconsiderate personality", or "Histrionic/Narcissistic Personality Disorder."
  • "It's the lookers who are all the trouble."
  • Fortunately, there are beautiful women out there who are loving and giving, and also clinically sane.
  • The idea is that if any particular babe that you're dating has any or all of the destructive character traits on that list, then you want to determine that as soon as possible, before you get in too deep (either emotionally, financially or even just in terms of time spent). So while you are with her during her initial probationary couple of months, you must look for what I call "Flags." How to identify self-absored user
    • 1. She fails to exhibit any genuine curiosity about you, your life and what's important to you. For example, while you're sharing about your passion for helping to save the whales, you can feel that she's preoccupied and just waiting for you to finish talking so she can tell you more about her .
    • 2. She constantly name-drops and brags about her professional accomplishments. You know the type. She's convinced that she's going to be famous – and soon – and she wants you to know all about it.
    • 3. She treats people in the service industry as subhuman. When you're out having dinner together, she orders your waiter around as though he's her slave. (Always observe how she treats the hired help. It will tell you a lot about her character.)
    • 4. She keeps asking probing questions, attempting to determine how much money you make. One of my students recently told me how his date, on their second night out together, asked him straight out: "So what's the most expensive gift you've ever given a woman?"
• How to spot a habitual liar link
  • You'd never go into business with a liar, why would you consider pursuing a romantic relationship with one? Use some common sense dude!
  • Remember guys, she cannot teach your kids to be honest if she doesn't know how to be honest.
• White lies women tell link
  • It's this attention to detail that makes women better liars, and in turn, more likely to catch men in their lies.
  • reasons to lie
    • to make you feel better
    • to save herself - self serving
• women who tell lies link
  • Although there can sometimes seem to be a legitimate reason for lying, it is nonetheless an unhealthy and damaging habit. For this reason, it's a good idea to reevaluate any relationship in which there's been dishonesty.
  • Reasons for lying:
    • to spare your feelings
    • lying to make herself look good - this is a deliberate and mischievous lie that could denote an underhanded person
      • ask yourself what she might do to get ahead, and whether she'd leave you at the drop of a hat for somebody who is higher on the social ladder.
    • Lying to cover up the past -
    • She is protecting herself - trying to keep her distance
    • She doesn't want you to worry - she's doing what she wants without having you fret about it.
    • She doesn't trust you
    • She is manipulative
    • She's testing you - false story about past relationship to see the reaction
    • She wants to keep the upper hand - She's found a way to keep you under her thumb, and as long as you allow it, you'll stay there. Anyone who tries this kind of trick likely has control issues and will continue to dominate you. If this sounds unattractive to you, get out while you can.
  • What you want to keep in mind about lies is that they are, by definition, dishonest. A woman who is keeping things from you or just making things up has hidden motives. Chances are that anything you try to build with a liar will collapse in the end. If you find out a woman has lied to you, try to get her to 'fess up, and then you can decide whether it's something you can get past or if it's time to throw in the towel.
• getting a woman to reveal her past
• manipulation
  • Keep calling her (and making excuses for her behavior) when she doesn't return calls or is otherwise "unavailable"?
  • If you answered "yes" to any of these questions (or a hundred similar ones), then you're the victim of sexual manipulation. You are running scared – afraid that if you stand up to her or don't succumb to her demands, she'll cut off the sex.
  • sex = power
  • Sex should be an intimate bond between two equal partners, but for women it is first and foremost a tool. They addict men to their sexuality and then withdraw it to keep them panting for more. They dangle sex in front of men like a carrot on a stick, knowing full well that they can get men to do anything they want them to do.
• 8 male behaviours she loves
  • 1. being a man
  • 2. saying no
  • 3. having a strong sexual appetite
  • 4. being independent - make time for your own hobbies
  • 5. being jealous -
  • 6. showing occassional vulnerability - letting a woman help you in little ways
    • a little bit of helplessness is good, women will like to help
  • 7. Hiding your feelings
  • 8. occassionally objectifying her
    • notice her, flattery will get you everywhere
  • ese behaviors generally fall into two camps: those that make you who you are, and those that reveal your attraction to her. Since we know women like attention, and since women like men, it's likely that she smiles to herself when she thinks of you and your quirky antics. So don't always take what she says at face value; in most cases, she actually likes you for you.
• win heart with romance
• bad habits
• she's addicted
• confused by doubletalk
  • why pick a girl with trust issues with men, scars and baggage
• never ask women what they want
• three biggest mistakes men make
• man cheating on his girlfriend with a girl who has a boyfriend
  • Loyalty is number one
• man with two timing girlfriend
  • girlfriend flirting with other man in front of him
  • "She has to be banished forever when you find out she's fooling around with another guy on the side."
  • She told you a while ago she's seeing another guy. What more do you need to get it through your head? Like my cousin Rabbi Love says, "Son, when she prefers slow dancing with another man in your presence, your bagel has been baked."

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